10 Ways You Can Take Your Sex Life From 0 To 100 - Part One

There comes a time when your sex life becomes somewhat boring
perhaps because you’re passing through some form of stress or
the other. It is important you consider sex as an important
ingredient necessary for the survival of your relationship or
marriage that you notice a decline in your normal sexual activities.
For this reason, if you find out that your libido is at an all time
low and you’re looking to bolster your sex life in general look no
further as we bring 10 sex tips guaranteed to take your sex life
from 0 to 100 real quick.

▪ Rethink how you define sex.

Getting too caught up in what your sex life should be like is a
common thing for people but if you decide to open up your mind
and talk about the things you think would make your sex life
awesome. Truth is you and your spouse can have very intimate and
loving connection when it comes to eroticism and sex which can help
the both of you achieve orgasm. It is easier for some people to
achieve orgasm while having sex in a mechanical and uninteresting
manner. Some people on the other hand may achieve orgasm
sparsely and some form of dislike and discomfort with penetration
(especially women). These people may however enjoy the closeness
and intimacy that comes with cuddling and physical contact. For
this reason, it’s better you don’t put yourself in anyone’s shoes
when it comes to accepting what they determine as awesome sex.
Carve out your niche. Other people may orgasm infrequently, or
dislike penetration, but love the intimacy and physical closeness
they share with their partner. As such. Lot of things can count
for wonderful sexual experiences from lying in bed with someone
you care for to intimate and erotic kisses and smooching provided
that’s what you want it to be.

▪ Let go of some of the emotional baggage you’ve been carrying.

In recent times, it’s become normal for people to multitask by
juggling so many things together at once. At other times we are
much too busy with our lives and getting to the top of our careers
that we forget to stop and take those short breaths and rest
which are essential for other areas of our existence such as our
sex life. The truth is when it comes to sexual activity, it is
essential you allow your partner access to the deepest parts of the
gender they belong to. Let the man be masculine and the female
feminine as this would help both partners open up themselves to
what their partners intend to give. Even though this seems old
fashioned and perhaps sexist, it’s actually a way to bring out the
best of you both.

▪ Try out a sex diet.

A lot of people know the kind of negative things that come with
some of our regular diets and how difficult it is to stay off a
particularly harmful diet once one is addicted to it. This may
somewhat apply to sex and a good way of having an excellent sex
life is to try taking off sometime from having sex. This sounds
odd but actually taking a three or four week break from sex would
be a good way for you to reconnect and discover new ways of
satisfying yourself and your partner sexually. Trying out the no
sex rule would help you to learn once again, how to turn your
partner on and get them to that orgasmic state including the fact
that it will help you introduce newer ideas into love making. It
sounds crazy, doesn’t it? But trying this out will sure help your sex
life.

▪ Make your bedroom as comfortable as possible.

The power of a neat and clean environment can never be
underestimated. As such it is important you make your environment
as comfortable as possible for sex, as it may be the factor that
would make the difference between sleeping off the minute you
hit the bedroom or going through some much needed action. You
can try clearing out anything not related to sex from your
bedroom such as paper work from your office and toys of your
kids. Create a sexual atmosphere by lighting candles and playing
nice R&B music to set the tone for some awesome sex. Try out new
ideas when it comes to making the bedroom environment sexy as
this as an effect on your mind and boosts your drive for sex. This
is generally good for your relationship or marriage.

To be continued…

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